Wednesday, January 6, 2010

When a man cries!!

Few weeks ago and in Xmas eve to be specific I had to stay late at work and one of my co-workers stayed late with me, because we were the only ones in the office we talked about so many things, he told me something that was shocking and sad at the same time. He told me about his love life and about the one true love that was in his life back in the days but few months before their wedding he lost his fiance to cancer it’s very sad indeed but what shocked me was that while he was talking about his lost love he cried even though this happened a long time ago, it’s amazing and touching to see an a man cry cause once upon a time he lost the person that he loved and apparently still love. Seeing him cry touched me, all I wanted to do is make him feel better, so I hugged him and told him “ hey it’s the holidays we are suppose to be celebrating and not crying”, while hugging him I said to myself “this is indeed true love”, it’s so unfortunate that it is very rare these days. Seeing a man cry is something I could never be able to describe it just shows how affectionate that person is and how much pain he still is in. As he was talking about his lost love, I was able to see the pain in his eyes and few seconds later I saw the tears, he was trying to hide them but he failed as his pain was hard to control. He told me that for some reason I reminded him of his lost love and he doesn’t really know why he shared his story with me. He actually gave me some advice about how men act when they like a woman, and he recommended a book for me which is called "men from mars , women from Venus" he said that it is a good book to read, he actually told me that it is my assignment during my 2 weeks off, the bad news is that I didn’t have enough time to go get the book and read it, I will try and get it sometime this week and read it cause I promised him that I will.

Anyway, ever since I saw that man cry cause he lost the love of his life made me realize that love do exist, I know it could be hard to find but it still happens. I just hope that the ending does not have to be this sad, and seeing a man cry is like a masterpiece, full of emotions and full of everything. I hope that I will someday find someone that would love me as much as this man loves his fiance.