Today I was walking in the mall with a close friend of mine, we are girls, and girls talk about boys, and wonder about their feelings and if they like us or not. The more I think about it, I realize that it is not a matter of a guy liking a girl, it is something that we want and need actually, the more uncertain we are about the other party the more we want it, and as soon as we get what we want, the spark and the fear and the attraction is all gone. But if this happens, then there is nothing called true love, I don’t like to believe that because I believe in true love, I know it could not always be a happy ending, but I always like to think that if I like someone very much, it is not only because of attraction or how he looks or how much money he has in the bank, it is going to be because of him in all his ways good and bad and accepting it, and never try to change it. Some people might say things and stories about the person that you love, but if you know for sure that that’s him, your second half, then no matter what or how long it last, the sparks and the attraction will always be there.
So in conclusion I think that if the spark fades then it is not true love, because true love always finds its way back, it’s always deep in our hearts and soul, it is part of us. So find love, find true love, once you do, never let go.
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ReplyDeleteI totally agree and I don't believe in soul mates, you can make someone your second half. Starting off by learning to accept them the way they are, with their hard-to-change habbits (even if it meant dealing with their a-bit-too-much of straightforwardness). And I do believe that their are many possible matches out there ;-)
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